It isn't easy to talk to your parents about the possibility of long-term care in the future. It may not come natural to chat with your spouse about the need for life insurance. And it may not be fun to look into mortgage insurance. However, all three of these issues need to be discussed now...before a crisis hits. I propose you use the time spent "porch sitting" at the Fourth of July barbecues, to get the conversation started about these important subjects. According to the 2011 Genworth "Financial Reality Check" survey, 73% of Americans would not know what to do if they received a call today saying a family member needed long term care. Don't let that be you.
For some tips on how and why to get the conversation started, check out "Let's Talk" magazine:
Look for articles from me in the coming month on the three key financial issues facing families right now:
- Long term care giving
- Buying (and keeping) a house
- Planning for the unexpected
While we may not want to talk about these things, we need to, and now is as good of a time as any. So go ahead, start the conversation. Make sure your future Fourth of July's are just as sweet.
Disclosure: This is a sponsored post. I was compensated for writing it but the opinions expressed are entirely my own.
Thanks for posting this. Long term care is something we haven't talked about at all in our family. But now that I have the spark, I will add it to my mental to-do list for our next family gathering.
ReplyDeleteWe've talked about the mortgage and such, but long term care for my folks we haven't. We're not having a gathering this 4th, so it'll be on my list of 'to-do' for the next.
ReplyDeleteThanks for your comments, guys! It really is an important subject.
ReplyDeleteThank you Maria for helping people to at least get the conversations started. When my mom was diagnosed with Stage 4 breast cancer, I never imagined the amount of stress and anxiety that I would experience. My mom was under 60, so I didn't even think that I would need to consider long term care for her until she was much older. Thankfully, I was able to manage her car until she passed away because she remained self-sufficient until the very end. This may not be the case for many people. I will definitely be looking out for your future posts to share with others. Thanks again.
ReplyDeleteIt's really sad that your mom met with Stage 4 breast cancer, it's really scary i would pray to god for your mom.
DeleteYes this is something that my husband and I need to discuss not only with each other but as well as our parents. Life can be cut short at any moment so it is best to start planning no matter how scared you are which I really am.
ReplyDeleteIt's so tough to talk about thinks like getting older and not being able to take care of ourselves in the future.
ReplyDeleteBut holidays like the 4th when we're all gathered are convenient times to start those discussions.
Yo have no idea how on time this post was. I just said to my husband how I was talking to a few other friends that had wills, life insurance etc and how now especially now that we have a child we really must start discussing things and setting things up.
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